they said that being lonely can cause to much problems in physical and mental aspect... for me not really... why?... being alone can have some benefits you can do what ever you want without thinking of others... you can decide where to go and what to do without worrying what others what to do and where they want to go... you can't hurt anybody... etc.. etc.. i have tried to go out with friends but for me im happy when im alone... i don't want distractions...
being alone is very different from being lonely. being lonely is to desire but not achieve companionship. i spent a lot of my life alone, though, so i understand the benefits. however, after a while i began to see that i wanted to be able to share with people, my thoughts, ideas, feelings, achievements, and complete disasters. this is not to say that this is how it is or should be for everyone, but this was my experience.
Yeah I don't get it, how come if you spend more time alone than with others there is something wrong with you? Look I love having some of my friends(others...) but sometimes I don't wanna sit there and have to talk to them. Sometimes being alone makes me more comfortable cause I don't have to try to make sure I say the right thing.
Not everyone has to be a social butterfly. Of course if we're talking about emo's than I might be a little bit unsure as to how to answer this blog.
well that's something I can agree on...they say lone ones are better at understanding this world than others...From my point of view you also achieved being satisfied from your situation; and I think this shows you're indeed a strong person...but being friends with people is not a ''distraction'' I think...As long as someone don't shape his/her world originating from their friends' plans and situations; sharing your happiness' and sadness' with them is a satisfying thing to a degree...
Lonlieness ... It's a hard acquired trait and when achieved it can be a pain to get rid of ... ... But aslong as you're happy, congratulations. It's worthwhile.
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